Finding NEMO????

Funny how you see those lovers passed by…and all you can feel is bitterness in your heart..

You want to run so fast so you will not catch a glimpsed of this awful act (hehehe) you wish having for yourself if ONLY he didn’t walk away and leave without a single trace…

HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS???

1.PRAYER IS THE BEST TOOL IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES U MIGHT HAVE..FREE, EFFECTIVE AND THE BEST CHOICE…

2. fIND NEW INSPIRATION- WHETHER IT’S A NEW SKILL, A NEW LOVE, OR A NEW EDITION OF A BOOK YOU EVER WANTED…TAKE THAT STEP…DO IT!

3. bUT FOR ME, A NEW love DEFINES EVERYTHING…

WE TEND TO FORGET AND IGNORE THE FACT THAT PEOPLE GET INVOLVE AND FIND LOVE SO "GREAT" BECAUSE HUMANS LOVE TO BE APPRECIATED. WE LONG FOR SPECIAL TREATMENTS THAT SO WAY DIFFERENT IF IT WAS GIVEN BY A FRIEND AND SO DEARLY IF IT WAS FROM SOMEONE U LOVE.

WHEN YOU LOST UR PURSE, DO YOU BUY A NEW BAG IN REPLACEMENT FOR THAT??

THE ANSWER IS NO.

A new PURSE WILL BE GREAT, WELL IT WILL NOT BE THE SAME AS THE FIRST ONE BUT AT LEAST THE FUNCTIONS OR PURPOSE IS STILL THERE… BUT LOVE, UNLIKE A PURSE DOESN’T COME IN BULK QUANTITY THAT U CAN BY CHANCE FIND THE SAME THING IN ANY STORE..UNLESS U FIND LOVE BETWEEN "TWINS" SIMILAR FACE, PROBABLY SAME TASTE IN FASHION BUT A DIFFERENT ATTITUDE AND THIS IS REALLY A MASTER PIECE OF GOD ALONE.

mOVING ON MIGHT TAKE TOLL FOR A WHILE IN YOUR LIFE, IT MIGHT HINDER YOU FROM GOING INTO THE SAME SPOTS U AND UR HUBBY LOVES TO ROAM AROUND BUT it WILL BE GOOD FOR YOU TO LET UR HEARTACHES OUT ONCE AND THEN, WITH HEADS UP HIGH, CONFRONT YOUR BIGGEST FEAR… HIM/HER IN A SITUATION U WOULDN’T IMAGINE..

MIND U THESE HAPPENS ALL THE TIMES…THE LEAST YOU COULD DO WHEN U BUMP UNTO HIM/HER WITH THE SUBSTITUTES ( i often used this to make myself secure they don’t replace my place in his heart but they substitutes for my absences) is TO SAY HI!! THEN HOW’S EVERYTHING, QUESTION SO THEY WILL FEEL UN EASY..AND MAKE THE FINAL EXIT BY SAYING, NICE TO SEE U THEN iM QUITE BUSY, i HAVE TO GO… HEADS STILL UP high …WOW! WALK AWAY AS FAR AS U CAN…

iF EVER THeSe DOESN’T WORK OUT WELL, and PROBABLY U FEEL BITTER AGAIN AND HIDE WHILE U SAW THEM HAND AND HAND..

THIS MY FRIEND IS ONE OF THE DIFFICULT MOMENTS U SHOULD AVOID…"self pitty" because it CAN kill YOU AND even break you..

MY GRAND MOTHER ONCE SAID… THE FISHES IN THE OCEAN are PLENTY BUT WHEN U DON’T KNOW WHICH FISH U WOULD WANT TO HAVE..THE VASTNESS OF THE OCEAN CAN OVERWHELM U, AND PRAY. even fisherman’s pray for each catch u know?

HAPPY FISHING AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love Lots,

FATIMA